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Hailey Heil Counseling

Couples

Improve sex and intimacy by exploring the elements of your relationship that aren't fulfilling your needs.

I work with couples who are struggling with intimacy or desire. This could look like infrequent or lack of sex, differing libidos, differing attachment styles, history of sexual trauma, sexual dysfunction, changes in sexuality or identity, lack of pleasure, and effects of aging. Through psychoeducation on new ways to connect and communicate, my clients find more ease and pleasure in their partnership. Improving physical intimacy often begins with identifying any barriers to emotional intimacy. Imagine your partnership with more trust, pleasure, excitement, and understanding.

The couples I work with are committed to improving their relationships and sex lives. I am not the best fit for high-conflict couples, or couples struggling with substance use, as this work is often best suited for individual counseling. If you or your partner struggle with emotional regulation, individual counseling could be a great place to begin. Most of my couples are currently or previously in individual counseling, with sufficient support and coping mechanisms to focus on strengthening their partnership.

I blend the teachings of Julie & John Gottman and Sue Johnson’s Emotionally-Focused Therapy. The Gottman Method focuses on concrete assessments and interventions that provide the structure for couples to learn and grow. I appreciate the Gottmans’ tools and visual aids that conceptualize common problems in relationships. Emotionally-Focused Therapy teaches us to slow down and dive a layer deeper. What is the hurt or disconnect beneath the problem that presents itself? EFT focuses on empathy and vulnerability and implores us to communicate in a new way.

Give your relationship the attention and effort it requires. Learn how to build a deeper, emotional connection through increased understanding and communication. I’ll help you navigate through the hurt and confusion to build a more loving, secure partnership.

Couples counseling sessions are 55 minutes in length. My fee is $195 per session. I also hold a few sliding scale spots for those in need.

Setup a free 15-minute video consultation using my contact form linked below. Let’s connect live, so I can answer your questions and ensure I will be a good fit for your needs.

 

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What can I expect out of counseling?

Sessions begin on a weekly basis, although some couples eventually choose to increase or decrease frequency based on their needs. The first session will be spent reviewing your intake questionnaires and setting goals. Whether you have been to couples counseling before, or are new to the practice, my goal is to provide a rewarding experience for you and your partner.

Do you take insurance?

I do not accept health insurance for couples counseling sessions. My focus with couples is centered around sex, pleasure, and deepening emotional understanding. Since a mental health diagnosis is not the primary focus of care, insurance cannot be utilized for payment.

Where are you located?

I offer my services via online video counseling to North Carolina residents. I can work with clients state-wide!

What’s online counseling like?

Sessions take place via HIPAA-compliant, encrypted, secure video technology to ensure your confidentiality. We will be speaking face-to-face via live video. In most cases, video counseling allows for more convenience and comfort for the client. Read more here.

Am I a good fit for therapy?

My clients are couples who are seeking to improve their relationship and experience more ease and pleasure in their sexual connection. My couples are generally happy and looking to grow alongside their partner. I am not the best fit for high-conflict couples or couples in crisis. My free video consultation can help decide if we’re a good fit for each other.

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